Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Answers

Billy got a call today while at work saying that we could bring Connor into Shriner's Hospital TODAY! We obviously were not going to turn this opportunity down. Our prayers were answered! It wasn't to meet with genetics it was to meet with an OI Doctor (Osteogenesis Imperfecta). 2 Doctors have said that they thought he has this. After 5 minutes of looking at Connor she told us that he has Osteogenesis Imperfecta. It was so nice to finally hear it. How sad is it that it is nice to be told your son has a disability? Well when you have known something is wrong with him for 3 years and been waiting for answers it is. We knew he had a bone disease. We knew it was 50/50 with being this or osteopenia. For those of you that don't know what osteogenesis imperfecta is it is a: genetic disorder characterized by bones that break easily, often from little or no apparent cause. A classification system of different types of OI is commonly used to help describe how severely a person with OI is affected. For example, a person may have just a few or as many as several hundred fractures in a lifetime.
Connor has type 1 which is the mild type. Here is more information on Type 1.

  • Most common and mildest type of OI.
  • Bones fracture easily. Most fractures occur before puberty.
  • Normal or near-normal stature.
  • Loose joints and muscle weakness.
  • Sclera (whites of the eyes) usually have a blue, purple, or gray tint.
  • Triangular face.
  • Tendency toward spinal curvature.
  • Bone deformity absent or minimal.
  • Brittle teeth possible.
  • Hearing loss possible, often beginning in early 20s or 30s.
  • Collagen structure is normal, but the amount is less than normal.
  • Weak tissues, fragile skin, and easy bruising.
    • OI Type I accounts for 50 percent of the total OI population.
    • Type I is characterized with mild bone fragility, relatively few fractures, and minimal limb deformities. The child might not fracture until he or she is learning to walk.
    • Shoulders and elbow dislocations may occur more frequently than in healthy children.
    • Some children have few obvious signs of OI or fractures. Others experience multiple fractures of the long bones, compression fractures of the vertebrae, and chronic pain.
      The intervals between fractures may vary considerably.
    • After growth is completed, the incidence of fractures decreases considerably.
    • Blue sclerae are often present.
    • Typically, a child’s stature may be average or slightly shorter-than-average as compared with unaffected family members, but is still within the normal range for the age.
    • There is a high incidence of hearing loss. Onset occurs primarily in young adulthood, but it may occur in early childhood.
    • People with OI Type I experience the psychological burden of appearing normal and healthy to the casual observer despite needing to accommodate their bone fragility.
    • The absence of obvious symptoms in some children may contribute to problems at school or with peers.
    • Significant care issues that arise with OI Type I include gross motor developmental delays, joint and ligament weakness and instability, muscle weakness, the need to prevent fracture cycles, and the necessity of spine protection.
    • Family members should carry documentation of the OI diagnosis to avoid accusations of child abuse at emergency rooms.
    • The treatment plan should maximize mobility and function, increase peak bone mass, and develop muscle strength. Physical therapy, early intervention programs, and as much exercise and physical activity as possible will improve outcomes.
Connor meets almost all of these. It's weird because I knew he had a brittle bone disease but now it is really reality. I am relived that a Doctor finally told me what he has and gave him a diagnosis. At the same time I am scared, worried, and stressed. I know God sent him to me for a reason. I am supposed to be his mother. God knows I can handle it. I just feel incompetent at the same time. Lots of mixed feelings and emotions. It's weird because I have a gifted disabled kid. I have a kid that is beyond advanced intellectually and behind physically and with motor skills. I just worry about how it will be when he goes to school. How will the kids treat him? OI Type 1 is often called a "invisible disorder" because it is not apparent to the casual observer. Kids will wonder why he looks and acts normal but isn't. My biggest fear is him being bullied and made fun of. I'm sure every parent has that fear but when your child has a disability it is even worst. Connor is also very passive aggressive. He gets it from me. I read on the oi foundation page to make sure you tell teachers that if your child has a fracture to know that it is not their fault. Also to emphasize that the benefits gained by the child’s participation in a regular school program far outweigh the risk of a fracture, which could occur wherever the child may be.
OI is a genetic disorder but for Connor he is the carrier of it. Billy and I both don't have it or a family history of it. Basically Connor has a spontaneous mutation of OI which happened during conception of him. It is not mine or Billy's fault just something in the sperm or egg got mutated. Nothing we did caused the spontaneous mutation to occur. Now that he is an OI carrier he has a 50% chance of passing it on to his kids. They are almost positive that Jack does not have it. Because Connor is the dominant carrier and not Billy or I it means Jack does not have it. Just by looking at Jack she could tell he didn't have it. If he does have a fracture they will test him for it though. We still are going on July 13th. It is to go to the OI Clinic. It will be A LOT of Doctors, and Tests. Their will be like 6 Doctors even a Dentist. They still want us to take him to genetics too. They said it doesn't have to be really soon. They are going to call us and let us know when. I read that it is important to realize that no matter how careful a caregiver tries to be, it is impossible to protect a fragile child from the pain of broken bones. Reading this made me feel better because it is so hard to not blame myself every time he breaks his leg so easily. It also said that it is a struggle to find the right balance between protecting from harm and encouraging the child to try new things. The Doctor today said that Connor shouldn't jump on a trampoline or climb monkey bars. She also told us that we really need to be careful to not tell the child "You can't, You can't". She said he shouldn't play football but it is very important that he stay very active. People with OI are encouraged to exercise as much as possible to promote bone and muscle strength, which can help prevent fractures. Walking and swimming are great exercises for him and should be done all the time. They will help his bones get stronger. We have to monitor what physical activity he does but not decrease his physical activity level at the same time.
A surgical procedure called “rodding” is frequently considered for people with OI. This treatment involves inserting metal rods through the length of the long bones to strengthen them and prevent and/or correct deformities.that Rodding Surgery is recommended for children that repeatedly break a long bone which Connor does. They wouldn't do the surgery until he is at least 8 though. Well like I said we are relieved to finally have been given a diagnosis and answers. Billy said he wanted to hug the Doctor lol. We knew he had something now we finally know what it is. Their is treatment but they only like to give it to people with moderate or severe oi not mild. They said if he had 2-3 fractures in a year rather than 1 then we could look into the medicine treatments. The Doctor wrote a thing for our Pediatrician to test Connor's Vitamin D levels when he gets his cast off next week. If it low they will prescribe him Vitamin D supplements which can help. I told my mom that I think my Grandma was up in heaven saying July 13th?! They can't wait till then to find out what is wrong with him they need to find out NOW. It sounds just like her and I know she is looking down on us and had a hand in us getting answers. Please keep Connor in your prayers. I now know that it is not just my gut saying that he has something but that he does and I know what it is. I just need to stay positive and be there for Connor.


Monday, April 11, 2011

Finally!

Good News! After calling 2-3 times a week for 2 weeks we finally got Connor an appointment! He will be going to Shriner's Hospital July 13th. Seems far away but really is only 3 months. Which is much better than 6 months to a year that I heard it could take. When we had called Primary Children's they actually referred us to Shriner's. They said that this is the best place to take him. We have to do a lot of paper working and it will be A LOT of tests done on Connor. I am just going to be hoping and praying my guts out till then that we will finally know what is wrong with our little boy. That we will finally get a diagnosis and know what to do to treat his problem and prevent him from breaking his leg. I have such a huge weight lifted off my chest just knowing that we have the appointment.

Thursday, April 7, 2011

March 2011

I am almost caught up on my blog! After this post I will be :).

My sweet sweet boy

Don't you just want to eat him up?

Bath time!

Connor left this apple on the floor and Jack picked it up and started chowing down. Luckily Connor had gotten most the peel off. Jack did just fine eating it. This kid will eat anything!

He is already climbing everything and anything! He is at such a fun but messy age!

Me and my beautiful sis Taylor with Jack.

Jack and Taylor

This boy melts my heart

Cute pic of my sister Kailey and Connor

He is so messy but so cute and loveable!

Rub a dub dub

This facial expression tells you what he is up too. MISCHIEF!


Such a happy boy!

I missed the 9 month update on Jack and now he is almost 10 months old! Connor breaking his leg kinda got me behind. Jack now has 4 teeth 2 on top and 2 on bottom. He loves to walk pushing anything and to climb anything. He can stand by himself for at least 10 seconds. He takes a few steps for example from like couch to couch. He really wants to walk. He is such a ham. I am so happy he joined our family. He is still cuddly which I love since Connor never was. He is more shy than Connor. If he doesn't know you he doesn't show his personality. He takes a while to warm up even to family members. It's so cute when people say hi to him he does a shy little smile and puts his head on my shoulder. He LOVES Connor. It is so fun to watch them interact together! He seriously squeals while he is playing with Connor. His face lights up when he sees him. Connor has always been such a good kind big brother to him. It makes my heart so happy to watch them play together.
Connor is doing good. He gets his cast off in less than 2 weeks. It has gone by really fast. He usually breaks his leg in the summer so it has been better with this mostly crappy weather. It was always so sad in the summer that he couldn't swim and such. We are still waiting for answers. We have been in contact with Doctor a few times in the last couple weeks. Doctor is trying to get him into Geneticist still. It is really hard to get in and the Doctor is being persistent thank goodness. He is going to call tomorrow to let us know when the appointment will be. Pray that it won't be more than a few months. A few months is good 6 months to a year not good. We are doing good though. Connor is happy. He asks a lot of questions though. Or say things like I can't with a broken leg or I haven't done that or watched that with a broken leg. Yesterday he said that he can't go to Easter with a broken leg. I said your cast will be off before Easter. He said well I can't walk without my cast. I said yes you can. He said well I might break my leg. Makes me so sad and breaks my heart. He knows something is wrong. He says I always break my leg. Or I have never broken this leg before as he points to his right leg. Then he says I always break this leg though. I just am getting so anxious to get answers and a diagnosis. 3 Doctors have said osteopenia but can't do anything because it has to be the Geneticist that tests him for it and gives him the diagnosis. Just want him to be able to live a somewhat normal life and be able to be treated for it and hopefully prevented. We are staying positive though. We know that God is aware of us and we just need to be patient. It is hard but it is always worth it right? I know this testing of my patience is just making me a better and stronger person and more importantly a better and stronger mom. I think that Connor staying positive is by my example of staying positive. I just always want to be there for him and stay strong. God gave him to me for a reason. Whatever curve balls get thrown at me I know it's because God knew I could handle them. Ok I really wasn't going to write this long. This was going to be my quick update post haha. Once you start writing it's hard to stop. It is so nice to get it all of my chest though and I feel so much better. Thank you for being supportive of my venting and please continue to pray for Connor.

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Disneyland 2011

March 4th Billy, Connor, and I headed for the best vacation of our lives. My mother in law was so kind to let baby Jack stay with her. I am very grateful for that. We stayed in St. George the 1st night. Our close friends The Holdaway's were there too. We met up with them and had dinner at Pizza Factory with all of them. The next morning we left. We stopped in Vegas at Ceaser's Palace and walked around their for a bit. I discovered the amazing store H&M. The one in Ceaser's Palace is brand new and the biggest one ever made. It was my 1st time going to that store and I got to go to the most amazing one! We killed a couple hours then headed straight to Anaheim! Connor took a short nap and was really good in the car. We walked to Downtown Disney that night and Connor loved the Lego Store. The next 3 days were DISNEYLAND. We were there pretty much open to close. Connor only fell asleep once out of the 3 days. The very first day he got really tired around 8:30 and fell asleep in his stroller. The next 2 days he was awake and energetic the whole time. He got tired once around lunch time. We walked to Mcdonald's and sat and relaxed there for about a half hour and then he was ready to go! He still talks about Disneyland constantly. I love that he has these memories forever. I know they will be some of his best memories in his life. This trip is now some of mine and Billy's best memories too. Going to Disneyland with your kid or kids is just so much better then not. I have 259 photos from the trip. It was hard to narrow it down but I picked about 30 for this post.




Connor had so much fun in this store trying on hats. He loved going into all the stores and looking at everything. This girl worked at this store and she was watching Connor and then just started playing with him. She played with him for about 15 minutes and said that he is the funniest kid she's ever met. Their were also some girls from Japan in front of us in line for Mickey that were laughing at Connor and loved him. They asked if they could get their picture taken with him and said that he was "pretty".

Silly boy

Mad Hatter Connor

Muppets 3D

Hugging Duffy the bear
Hugging Jessie



Pirate Connor. Aaarg! He requested these ears and sword after going on Pirates for the 1st time. Pirates was his favorite and we went on it a total of 4 times. His 2nd favorite was The Matterhorn. He loved Thunder Mountain and Alice in Wonderland too. He liked every ride but Tower of Terror and Space Mountain. He didn't cry on them he just closed his eyes.
Tinkerbell! Love this pic.

Connor with Aladdin and Jasmine.
My cute sweet boy.

Mr.INCREDIBLE!

Giving Connor kisses.
Handy Manny



Yay for Mickey!
Dale
Alice. He loves Alice!
The White Rabbit was so cute with Connor. He ran off with the autograph book and Connor chased him.
Queen of Hearts
Love this pic of Connor and Billy

Aren't we cute? LOL.
Connor's favorite RAPUNZEL! We waited in line for an hour in a half to meet her. Every other character the most we waited was 10 minutes usually we just went right up to them. We only would wait that long for Rapunzel though because Connor loves her so much.


Lego Woody
Building Lego's at the Lego store

On the car ride home we drove STRAIGHT. No stopping in Vegas or staying in St.George a night. We stopped for bathroom breaks and gas only. Billy drove all the way to Cedar City and then was done so then I drove from Cedar City home. Connor took a 5 hour nap! It was amazing he has never done that!


Reading Calvin and Hobbes in the car.

Disneyland is so amazing! We were going to wait till Jack was almost 3 to go again. That way he will still be free but will be old enough to enjoy everything. We are thinking we might just go again next year because we loved it so much.

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